Save the 1 Speaker Websites
Showing posts with label pro-life speakers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pro-life speakers. Show all posts
Tuesday, December 26, 2017
The Child is Unexpected Joy After The Trauma of Rape by Darlene Pawlik
After the trauma of rape, Save The 1 moms experience unexpected joy. There are a number of
reasons, but one of the biggest is made possible by generous donors, like you.
We thank you.
Donors make it possible for new rape survivors to find us and to engage in a community of others who truly understand the many aspects of dealing with rape conception. It is with your help that we can reach those who need us the most.
The complexity of rape conception can only be understood by those who have actually experienced it. There is anger, misplaced guilt, imposed shame, denial, relief, frustration, revulsion, love, fear, and a myriad of other emotional states that fluctuate wildly at any given moment.
Each situation differs as well. For me, the culmination of a lifetime of sexual abuse meant that I would deal with complex trauma. My biological father sexually abused me from toddlerhood and that core violation made me feel worth less than other people. It was a perfect set-up for a pimp to notice me at thirteen years old. I survived four brutal years of juvenile sex trafficking. My pregnancy was not the result of one rape, but many.
I knew it wasn't the baby's fault. She was merely a second victim of the hideous crime, but many people in our society hold onto a confused compassion. They believe that rape victims who become pregnant should submit to abortion. Saving my baby saved my life and she brings me tremendous joy everyday.
Save The 1 moms are able to find joy in knowing that there are others, many others, who have come through similar experiences victoriously. Whether parenting or placing their children for adoption, we are a safe, understanding group with which to share trials and gain perspective. So, we can find joy, even in the midst of what would otherwise be so devastating.
For those moms who have submitted to abortion after rape, your donations help to reach out to bless them with peace and hope, and resources for dealing with the aftermath of the additional trauma that abortion imposed on them. Your donations mean they hear the love and kindness of our 100% pro-life-pro-love community of believers.
This year Save The 1 speakers, men and women who have been conceived by rape or incest, moms or post abortive moms from rape, and parents or children targeted for abortion due to a poor prenatal diagnosis, have reached around the globe.
Our President, Rebecca Kiessling had a huge impact from Ireland and Rebecca traveled and spoke in a number of countries in Europe, as well as South America. That means that tens thousands of people heard her in person and millions through media coverage. Lives were impacted and public policy affected.
Here in the states, Brad and Jesi Smith, whose daughter has Trisomy 18, spoke at a number of events, as did I and others. Our message, that the people called "exceptions" in pro-life discourse are actually human beings with names, faces, value and are worthy of protection. That is literally being heard around the world because of your generous giving.
Your gifts enable us to purchase booth space at events like conventions, physician's conferences, political meetings, community events, the March for Life, and many others where we meet people who either had no idea how public policy became the way it is. Many politicians endorsed as pro-life and even several major pro-life organizations push exceptions into laws which might protect women and children from abortion. Some hold to the discriminatory idea that rape-conceived babies are somehow different from any other babies, or less worthy of protection.
The blog and podcasts, social media presence, our appearances and dissemination of resources are making such a difference! We've collaborated with other pro-life organizations throughout the U.S. and globally to share our stories through documentaries, tv and radio ads, billboards, and on other websites. Our Spanish division is thriving, our Portuguese division is growing, and we are now launching a Polish and German division, to reach more people with our stories and so noone ever has to feel alone with a difficult history.
We hope you have experienced great joy this Christmas and we are expecting a tremendously influential New Year with expanded projects to reach more people with the vital message that every human life is valuable.
You can make a tax deductible, year-end donation here today and help reach more people and Save The 1 -- the least of these.
Thank you so much for all of your support and sharing the 100% Pro-Life message.

-- Darlene Pawlik, Vice President of Save The 1, Pro-Life Speaker and Blogger. She lives in New Hampshire with her husband of 27years.
reasons, but one of the biggest is made possible by generous donors, like you.
We thank you.

The complexity of rape conception can only be understood by those who have actually experienced it. There is anger, misplaced guilt, imposed shame, denial, relief, frustration, revulsion, love, fear, and a myriad of other emotional states that fluctuate wildly at any given moment.
Each situation differs as well. For me, the culmination of a lifetime of sexual abuse meant that I would deal with complex trauma. My biological father sexually abused me from toddlerhood and that core violation made me feel worth less than other people. It was a perfect set-up for a pimp to notice me at thirteen years old. I survived four brutal years of juvenile sex trafficking. My pregnancy was not the result of one rape, but many.
I knew it wasn't the baby's fault. She was merely a second victim of the hideous crime, but many people in our society hold onto a confused compassion. They believe that rape victims who become pregnant should submit to abortion. Saving my baby saved my life and she brings me tremendous joy everyday.
Save The 1 moms are able to find joy in knowing that there are others, many others, who have come through similar experiences victoriously. Whether parenting or placing their children for adoption, we are a safe, understanding group with which to share trials and gain perspective. So, we can find joy, even in the midst of what would otherwise be so devastating.
For those moms who have submitted to abortion after rape, your donations help to reach out to bless them with peace and hope, and resources for dealing with the aftermath of the additional trauma that abortion imposed on them. Your donations mean they hear the love and kindness of our 100% pro-life-pro-love community of believers.
This year Save The 1 speakers, men and women who have been conceived by rape or incest, moms or post abortive moms from rape, and parents or children targeted for abortion due to a poor prenatal diagnosis, have reached around the globe.
Our President, Rebecca Kiessling had a huge impact from Ireland and Rebecca traveled and spoke in a number of countries in Europe, as well as South America. That means that tens thousands of people heard her in person and millions through media coverage. Lives were impacted and public policy affected.
Here in the states, Brad and Jesi Smith, whose daughter has Trisomy 18, spoke at a number of events, as did I and others. Our message, that the people called "exceptions" in pro-life discourse are actually human beings with names, faces, value and are worthy of protection. That is literally being heard around the world because of your generous giving.
Your gifts enable us to purchase booth space at events like conventions, physician's conferences, political meetings, community events, the March for Life, and many others where we meet people who either had no idea how public policy became the way it is. Many politicians endorsed as pro-life and even several major pro-life organizations push exceptions into laws which might protect women and children from abortion. Some hold to the discriminatory idea that rape-conceived babies are somehow different from any other babies, or less worthy of protection.
The blog and podcasts, social media presence, our appearances and dissemination of resources are making such a difference! We've collaborated with other pro-life organizations throughout the U.S. and globally to share our stories through documentaries, tv and radio ads, billboards, and on other websites. Our Spanish division is thriving, our Portuguese division is growing, and we are now launching a Polish and German division, to reach more people with our stories and so noone ever has to feel alone with a difficult history.
We hope you have experienced great joy this Christmas and we are expecting a tremendously influential New Year with expanded projects to reach more people with the vital message that every human life is valuable.
You can make a tax deductible, year-end donation here today and help reach more people and Save The 1 -- the least of these.
Thank you so much for all of your support and sharing the 100% Pro-Life message.

-- Darlene Pawlik, Vice President of Save The 1, Pro-Life Speaker and Blogger. She lives in New Hampshire with her husband of 27years.
Monday, March 21, 2016
A President Who Kills Her Most Vulnerable Citizens? by Brad Smith
You can
measure the value of a society by how the weakest members are treated. Since 1989, Chile has been a country that
protects these precious souls, but President Bachelet of Chile has decided to
join the sick and depraved people of this world who have targeted disabled
children for annihilation. Chile’s
Cámara de Diputados has linked arms with President Bachelet to vote for a bill
that would allow disabled children to be killed in the womb by legalizing
abortion in these cases. Does a decent society
protect or destroy its most vulnerable citizens?

When Faith
was born, everyone saw that something was wrong. We found out a couple of weeks later that Faith,
in fact, had Trisomy 18. Even at this
point after Faith was born, we were being encouraged not to treat our
daughter. Doctors did not think that we
should offer her even some of the most basic medical care to help our child
live and thrive. We even had a doctor
who told us that “you will only prolong her life.” Seriously, isn’t that what the medical
industry is all about, prolonging life?
You see, in
the USA, we have allowed this perverse and demented view of life to take hold
in our country through legalized abortion.
We have created a culture of death that causes many in our society to
think of life as having little value and they are willing to judge the worth of another person’s life based upon their valueless
view. So now in the United States, doctors kill over
90% of children like my daughter Faith who have a disability. Before they can even breathe their first
breath, doctors murder our disabled children in the womb.
When I was a
young boy in 1973, abortion was legalized in the United States. Where I grew up in Ohio, we had a local
school that sent buses around to pick up disabled children and take them to be
taught. Today, the school no longer
exists because our culture has literally wiped most of the disabled children
from the face of our nation. This is the
legacy that we are leaving because abortion has created a selfish, narcissistic
people in the USA -- so consumed
with selves that citizens do not even care about the most vulnerable people among
us.
The world
has become a very scary place for disabled children. Good people of Chile, do not let your
president turn your country into a killing field for disabled children. Don’t allow yourselves to be deceived that
this is the best choice for everyone involved.
This is a LIE. Your country will
not be made better through abortion; rather, it will become degraded and
dehumanized. Your people will not have
better lives because disabled children do not exist; they will simply have been
deprived of the opportunity to develop compassion and to know the unconditional
love of a disabled child who has only love to offer.
Tell your
Senate to end this self-destructive bill that will eat away at your society
until you have no value for life. Stop
President Bachelet from taking you down the road that leads to
destruction. Do NOT become like the rest
of the world, but be an example to the world by loving your disabled
children. I can promise you one thing;
you will be a better society and people by protecting your most vulnerable citizens.
http://www.salvarel1.blogspot.com/2016/03/un-presidente-que-asesina-sus.html
BIO: Brad Smith is in sales for a Christian radio station, and a Board Member of Save The 1. He and his wife Jesi have 5 children, and are bloggers and pro-life speakers for Save The 1. Their own website is www.keepingourfaith.comwww.keepingourfaith.com.
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
The Doctor Said There Was A Black Cloud Over My Child, by Brad Smith
“I was offered termination at 23 weeks. That was the 4th doctor to offer it and she said God wasn't punishing me... And if I tried again there was only a 1% chance of it happening to me again.” Jennifer Giddens was told that she was pregnant with a child who had Trisomy 18 also called Edwards Syndrome which is similar to Down Syndrome, but much harsher. She was struggling to find a doctor who would help her. Finally on her 5th doctor, Jennifer met a pro-life obstetrician. He of course could not guarantee that her little Mary-Margaret would make it to term, but at least he was willing to help.
Mary-Margaret was born at 37.5 weeks weighing 3lbs 6 oz and only needed cpap breathing support for a few hours. A doctor who came to Jennifer’s room to discuss her condition said she had a heart defect, but central apnea (which is a breathing problem caused by the nervous system) would kill her before the heart issue. The doctor said she had a day...maybe a week. Well, she was beating their expectations, and 8 days later they took her home. Doctors always said Mary-Margaret was a candidate for surgery when the time came that she needed it. Jennifer talked to the surgeon personally a few times and she was reassured that the doctor was more than willing to perform the surgery. The cardiologist said Mary-Margaret needed to be 4 lbs to have the required heart surgery.
Many children with Trisomy 18 struggle with heart and breathing issues, and Mary-Margaret was no different. Some time passed and her heart rate began to drop when she slept so Jennifer took Mary Margaret to the hospital. Now in the hospital with her daughter in need of the promised heart surgery, Jennifer was confronted with a harsh reality that most parents of Trisomy 18 children face…a heartless doctor. Jennifer told me that “the attending doctor said on rounds that ‘there was a black cloud over M&M and it was coming.... REAL soon. That there was nothing to do, but surgery, and nobody would operate on a baby like her.’ She was yelling all of this outside the door” so everyone could hear her. And this is supposed to be a teaching hospital. Maybe the doctor felt everyone outside the room needed to learn that Trisomy 18 is “incompatible with life” and that HIPPA privacy laws don’t apply to her.
When the doctor walked in the room to talk, she asked what Jennifer knew about Mary-Margaret’s condition, and Jennifer said “enough to know there's hope for her.” The doctor responded “IF there were any older babies alive they didn't have a heart problem. That no one would do surgery on her because she was scrawny and she was struggling. And why would I want to prolong suffering.” This doctor obviously did not care enough about this beautiful little child to do a little research and find out that many children with Trisomy 18 have heart surgery and 90% of them survive it. Oh, and most T18 children have heart issues like the dozens of living children who we personally know including our 6 year old daughter Faith.

Are you sick to your stomach yet? This story is happening everyday all across this country. I know because my wife and I experienced this with our daughter too and had the same comment made to us about prolonging her life. Isn’t the entire medical industry based around the idea of prolonging life? Measles, rabies, small pox, and malaria are all diseases that cause suffering and death, yet doctors worked to prolong life and end the suffering of these patients. Because of innovation by life-loving doctors and their self-less work, these diseases can be wiped out and life prolonged for millions of people. I have a novel idea. Let’s apply this type of innovation to every situation possible and see what great things can happen.
Brad Smith and his wife Jesi are Save The 1 pro-life speakers @ savethe1.com from Rochester Hills, Michigan. Learn more about Brad and Jesi at www.keepingourfaith.com.
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Why Does This Hospital Want To Let My 2 Year Old Daughter Die? by Brad Smith
We have a friend, Kayse, here in Michigan who has a
beautiful little 2 year old girl named Lila.

Lila has been hospitalized twice this month for a total of
about 11 days for a bronchiole infection and lack of oxygenation. Wednesday
evening she was discharged from the PICU (pediatric intensive care unit) on a
small amount of oxygen. Doctors told Kayse to continue with care at home and to
return if she gets a fever of any kind or if she gets worse at all. Well her oxygen saturation started dropping
into the high 70's which is very low since our bodies need to operate in the
mid 90s. Kayse upped her oxygen and gave
her a breathing treatment. Then Lila developed a low grade temperature so they
called the after-hours pediatrician number, and the doctor asked them to go to
the hospital. When they arrived, the resident and attending doctors in ER wanted
to have her admitted. The ER doctors had
the PICU resident and attending physicians come down to look at Lila. In the meantime, the nurse had not come into
the room yet, and the respiratory therapist gave Lila a breathing treatment and
stated that her lungs sounded coarse which means she had mucous in her lungs.
The PICU doctors arrived and claimed that Lila had a left
ear infection and wanted to send her on her way. Knowing that the respiratory therapist said
her lungs sounded coarse, Kayse did not accept this and explained her fears
about how many of our trisomy children pass away from respiratory problems, and
she did not want that to be Lila. At
that point, the doctor from the PICU looked Kayse in the eye and asked if she
knew anything about trisomy 18 children and their life expectancies, and how
Lila is past her life expectancy. Obviously, Kayse was very upset and angry. She understands more about Trisomy 18 than
this doctor because she has been living it day in and day out for the last 2
years. Not only is this an insulting
question to Kayse about her understanding, but worse, it is an attack on the
value of Lila’s very life.
Kayse explained that until this illness Lila has been a very
healthy and happy child. She has more than proven herself, time and time again…like
she should even have to prove herself to earn treatment? Is this doctor the
arbiter of whose life is worthy of treatment? Should Lila now have treatment withheld so she
will simply die and go away? Why should
Lila not be offered the same level of care as any other child? Why shouldn't she be given steroids to help
her feel better faster? Why shouldn't they run tests? How is it OK to stick her
in a room for 4 hours and never offer her Tylenol for her fever and discomfort?
How is it ok that her nurse never even came in to assess her? How is Lila’s
life worth less than the other children in the hospital?
As I read Kayse’s update and what this doctor said, I could
not help, but think about my own illnesses during my childhood. I had pneumonia 4 or 5 times between ages
1-7. My parents were visiting this
weekend for my 14 year old son’s birthday so I asked them if anyone ever
suggested that I was past my life expectancy or did they simply treat my
multiple illnesses? They made it clear
that no doctor ever even suggested such an idea and they simply treated me as a
child who needed help. I had pneumonia
more times as a child than my 5 ½ year old Trisomy 18 daughter Faith has had
it. So why was my life worth saving? Is
it because I have the ability to write this story? Lila and my daughter Faith are lovely little
girls who have tremendous value because they were created in the image of God.
Lila is now resting at home with her parents. Please pray for Lila that she will recover
quickly and for her family that they will be able to rest and have peace.
LifeNews Note: Brad Smith and his wife Jesi are Save The 1 (www.savethe1.com)
pro-life speakers from Rochester Hills, Michigan. Learn more about Brad and Jesi at www.keepingourfaith.com.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)